{"id":132799,"date":"2023-10-26T18:06:14","date_gmt":"2023-10-26T18:06:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bluemull.com\/?p=132799"},"modified":"2023-10-26T18:06:14","modified_gmt":"2023-10-26T18:06:14","slug":"my-self-esteem-has-been-on-the-floor-since-my-wife-made-a-jibe-about-my-penis-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bluemull.com\/lifestyle\/my-self-esteem-has-been-on-the-floor-since-my-wife-made-a-jibe-about-my-penis-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My self-esteem has been on the floor since my wife made a jibe about my penis | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"
DEAR DEIDRE: EVER since my wife made a jibe about my penis being small, my self-esteem has been on the floor.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Now, whenever we have sex it\u2019s all I can think about and no matter what I do I can\u2019t shake the underlying feeling that I\u2019m not big enough for her.<\/p>\n
She\u2019s 42, I\u2019m 46 and we\u2019ve been married for 13 years.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Throughout my life, I\u2019ve always known my size was below average, but I thought my wife had never minded.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Yet two weeks ago I overheard her laughing her head off on the phone with a friend and I couldn\u2019t help myself from asking her what was so funny. <\/p>\n
She went on to tell me about a time before we met when she almost slept with a man but had to stop in her tracks when she saw the size of his penis.<\/p>\n
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She couldn\u2019t contain her laughter and told me it was the size of a pea.<\/p>\n
I jokingly asked if he was smaller than me to which she replied \u201cI couldn\u2019t say\u201d. <\/p>\n
I wanted to believe that she was joking, but a part of me knew that there was some seriousness to her comment.\u00a0<\/p>\n
She could tell I was hurt and quickly apologised, promising me she didn\u2019t mean it. Yet, ever since then I can\u2019t get it off my mind.\u00a0<\/p>\n
My confidence has hit at an all-time low. I feel so unworthy.\u00a0<\/p>\n
DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>It\u2019s understandable that you are hurt at your wife\u2019s comment.<\/p>\n If you already had insecure feelings about your size then it\u2019s natural this would intensify that.<\/p>\n However, if she\u2019s apologised and until this point hasn\u2019t complained about your sex life, then it could just have been an insensitive joke.<\/p>\n Tell your wife exactly how it made you feel and that her laughter was immature and callous.\u00a0<\/p>\n If you\u2019re still struggling with low self-esteem, my support pack Penis Size can help.<\/p>\n<\/picture>WORRIED SICK <\/span><\/p>\n
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