My gay partner has been going to drug and sex parties behind my back

DEAR DEIDRE:  MY partner has admitted going to sex and drugs parties while I was at work. I had no idea.

We’re two gay men in our 20s and we were together two years. I knew he did drugs but with my help he managed to quit – or so I thought. We split up because we started to row every day.

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I had managed to get back on track on my own when he called me and said he’d been fired from his job and needed a flatmate to help pay his bills.

Like a fool I agreed to move back in.

He’s now admitted he was sleeping around and taking drugs throughout our relationship.

I’m angry that I let him back into my life but feel guilty as well.

I know he’s been through some difficult stuff.

He’s in a dark place and I’m thinking, “Perhaps I’m to blame?”

DEIDRE SAYS: So, your ex had a difficult past and you’re right that it might be linked to his drug use and risky sex now.

But don’t blame yourself.

You can’t fix his past but you can tell him he can find help now.

Suggest that he calls CALM – the Campaign Against Living Miserably (, 0800 58 58 58).

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