Last week my girlfriend left me and has jumped straight into the arms of another man

DEAR DEIDRE: LAST week my girlfriend left me saying I wasn’t as into the relationship as she was.

She jumped straight into the arms of another man.

I broke down and told her it was just that I am scared to commit. I am now in bits.

I am 29 and I was in a relationship with the girl I thought I was going to marry until she ended our engagement last year.

Since then I have had many one-nights stands but then I met my girlfriend and we’ve been together for four months.

She was caring and told me she loved me lots.

I felt the same but had a fear of saying it and opening up to her. Now she’s left me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Has this only been a problem since your fiancée broke up with you or was your struggle to show warmth and commit part of the reason she finished with you too?

It may well stem from your early days.

Maybe your family didn’t believe in showing their feelings or you had parents who didn’t show you unconditional love.

Your fiancée ending it will have made you even more scared of getting hurt.

Counselling can help free your pain. See bacp.co.uk.

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